To really drive men crazy with pleasure it is worth practicing and knowing how to do fellatio (commonly “blowjob”) in a masterly way.
For many men, the most sensitive point on the penis is the frenulum. The frenulum is the lower part of the tip of the penis, where the glans joins its shaft. One tip for giving an extremely pleasurable blowjob is to use the tip of your tongue to apply a gentle flickering motion while you are naturally stimulating his frenulum, sucking him or simply licking his penis. This technique is different in that you will focus all your stimulation on a very specific point on his penis.
Hitting his frenulum can be the perfect way to start your blowjobs before taking his entire penis in your mouth. You can move your tongue up and down, side to side, in circles, or by combining all three.
Many women are so anxious at the thought of practicing oral sex on their man that they get straight to it without foreplay. It’s like they just focus on making him ejaculate.
Gently teasing your man and increasing the sexual tension so that he is practically begging you to suck him is vital if you want to turn your blowjobs from good to wonderful.
Another great way to amplify the sexual tension and make him wiggle with joy is to lick it gently, making sure you use plenty of saliva and then blow on the wet spot you created. Blowing on the wet area creates a cool feeling that is great for teasing your man and making him moan with pleasure. Try this for about a minute before taking it in your mouth.
In addition to the penis, don’t forget to pamper the testicles and perineum, that is, the area near the anus where the male G-spot is located. Let your hands voluptuously explore the genitals, the umbilical area and the inner thighs! You can also use anything else at your disposal to increase arousal, such as sex toys.
A great way to start your blowjob is to kiss his penis all over. Kissing is great if you like to take things slow and tease your man. You can kiss his penis however you like, but it will be much easier when you use your hand to hold him while you kiss him. There are many different ways to kiss his penis, from giving him quick little “nozzles” to giving him longer and more intense kisses. He will especially like it if you give him wet and soft kisses. Don’t be surprised if at this stage you can see the “precum” or semen dripping from his penis. You can also use this precum to wet your lips.
Kissing him is a fabulous way to back off if you feel he is nearing climax and you want him to wait a little longer before reaching orgasm. It will also give your jaw rest if you find yourself tired.
The only mandatory tip when giving your man oral sex is that you absolutely must not use your teeth on him. It can completely ruin an otherwise great experience.
Which blowjob position is the best?
The position you use to give your man a blowjob can be more or less important.
Submissive Positions – If you want to behave submissively for your man when you do, then kneeling or being pushed by him while standing can make you feel quite submissive while your man feels dominant. Looking up and making eye contact while kneeling can intensify this feeling of submission. Having your hands cuffed behind your back, giving your man more control over you, can increase this feeling of submission to the max.
Dominant positions – You could push your man onto the bed, so that he is lying on his back. You then straddle his head / shoulders and slowly lower yourself over his mouth, ordering him to lick you. Eventually, you lean forward to return his favor and start giving him a blowjob in position 69. To intensify this feeling, you can reach behind his head, grab his hair and let him give you pleasure. Or you could tie his arms to the bed.
Exotic Positions: Alternatively, to spice things up, you could just use a position you’ve never used before.
The position in which you give your man a blowjob can add a lot to his pleasure (and yours too!).
The position you use becomes more and more important if your man gets aroused visually … and as you already know, many men are visual animals.
Speaking of being visual …
Mirrors – Another great way to add to your man’s viewing experience is to use a mirror. Think of giving him a blowjob in front of a regular wall mirror or even in front of a large window or glass shower door where he can see your reflection.
Most guys are visually stimulated, but what you may not know is that they also love to “feel” your blow job. How does your blowjob feel? Through your licking, drinking, kissing, breathing and moaning. I’m not talking about making loud, fake sounds as you take his penis in and out of your mouth. What I’m saying is that most guys love to hear the sounds you naturally make during your blowjob. In fact, the noises women make can help their partners achieve orgasm. If you are having fun during the blow job, feel free to moan your pleasure, even with him in your mouth.
Which of you two takes the initiative sexually? You or your man?
Try to be aware of this in your relationship, as it can be really exciting for your man to wake him up with a surprise, a morning blowjob (or you may prefer morning sex instead). Likewise, it can be intense when he grabs you, pushes you to your knees, and unzips your pants. In short, sometimes let him initiate, other times, you should be the one to initiate.
Make sure you try out new ideas for your blowjobs, and don’t forget the variations that are already working great!